While the USA and the UK share a common language and many cultural ties, there are still plenty of quirky differences that can leave Americans scratching their heads. Here are 17 classic English habits that often mystify their friends across the pond.
Tea Time Traditions
According to the BBC, “84% of the UK population drinks tea every day,” and the ritual of stopping everything for a “cuppa” is sacred in England. It’s not just about the tea itself, it’s about the whole experience – a quiet moment of relaxation, usually accompanied by biscuits or cakes. Americans, who often prefer coffee on the go, might find it odd.
Queuing Up
The English are famously polite, and nowhere is this more evident than in their dedication to queuing. Whether it’s for the bus, at the supermarket, or waiting to get into a concert, the English will form a neat line without complaint. This orderly approach is deeply ingrained, and any attempt to skip the queue is met with disapproval.
Apologising, Even When It’s Not Your Fault
The English have a reputation for being extremely polite, and this is most evident in their frequent use of the word “sorry.” They apologise for everything, even when it’s not their fault. If someone bumps into them, they’ll say sorry, or if they need to ask a question, they’ll start with “sorry,” too.
Small Talk about the Weather
Discussing the day’s forecast is almost an art form, an easy and non-confrontational way to connect with others. But for Americans, who might prefer to dive into more personal or varied topics, this constant weather chatter can seem dull and pointless. In the UK, it’s a reliable way to deal with social interactions and avoid awkward silences.
Public Displays of Affection
Public displays of affection (PDA) are generally more subdued in Great Britain compared to the USA. While you might see Americans holding hands, hugging, or even kissing in public quite freely, the English tend to be more reserved. Displays of affection are usually kept private, and overt PDA might even be frowned upon.
Driving on the Left
One of the most noticeable differences is that people in the UK drive on the left side of the road. For Americans, who are used to driving on the right, this can be disorienting and even intimidating. It’s not just the driving that’s different—everything from road signs to roundabouts follows a different logic.
Sense of Humour
British humour is famously dry and often sarcastic, relying heavily on irony and understatement. Americans, who might be more accustomed to straightforward or slapstick humour, can sometimes miss the subtleties and take things too literally. The English love a good pun and enjoy poking fun at themselves, which can sometimes be misconstrued.
Understated Fashion
Tending to favour a more understated and classic approach to fashion, Brits might be confused Americans who go for bold colours and trends. The English often stick to muted tones and timeless pieces. There’s a certain understated elegance to English style, with an emphasis on quality over quantity.
Bank Holidays
In England, public holidays are often referred to as “bank holidays,” and they are eagerly anticipated as a chance to take a break from work. Unlike in the USA, where holidays might be more spread out and themed (like Thanksgiving or the Fourth of July), English bank holidays are simply days off with no particular significance other than rest and relaxation.
Love for Pub Culture
It’s common to see families with children enjoying a meal at the pub, and many pubs have a cosy, welcoming atmosphere. For Americans, who might associate bars more with nightlife and younger crowds, the English pub culture, with its emphasis on socialising and inclusivity, can be a delightful surprise.
Complex Relationship with the Royal Family
The English have a unique and often complex relationship with their royal family. They’re both fascinated by and critical of the royals, and the media closely follows every move. Americans, who don’t have a monarchy, are often intrigued by this dynamic and the ongoing interest in royal affairs.
Love of Gardening
Gardening is more than just a hobby in the UK; it’s a national passion. The English take great pride in their gardens, no matter how small, and there’s a thriving culture of garden shows, competitions, and open garden events.
Cricket Confusion
To many Americans, it’s utterly perplexing why cricket is a beloved sport across the pond. The rules are complex, and matches can last for days. While baseball is America’s pastime with its own intricate rules, cricket’s slower pace and various formats (like Test matches and One-Day Internationals) can be a tough sell.
Separate Taps for Hot and Cold Water
In many English bathrooms and kitchens, you’ll find separate taps for hot and cold water. This can be a source of confusion and frustration for those from the USA who are used to mixing hot and cold water from a single tap to get the perfect temperature.
Sunday Roasts
The Sunday roast is a cherished tradition, involving a hearty meal of roast meat, potatoes, vegetables, and Yorkshire pudding, often followed by a rich dessert. It’s more than just a meal; it’s a weekly event—or ritual—that brings families together.
The Concept of “Bobbies”
People in the UK have a unique term for their police officers – “bobbies.” This quaint nickname, derived from Sir Robert Peel, the founder of the Metropolitan Police Service, reflects the English tendency to add a touch of whimsy to everyday things. For Americans, who typically just refer to their law enforcement as “police,” this endearing term can be a charming yet odd quirk.
Seasonal Celebrations
Lastly, the English have a host of seasonal celebrations that might seem unusual to Americans, including Bonfire Night on November 5th, commemorating the foiling of Guy Fawkes’ Gunpowder Plot. These traditions can be a little bewildering, as can the uniquely British customs surrounding Christmas, like Christmas crackers and pantomimes.
